uhuh, ya, i'm sure that would go over like a lead balloon...
if your pc/connection suck, you have 3 options (funny how everything in life can be boiled down to three options, ain't it?):
1) upgrade
2) adapt
3) quit
life isn't fair. those same three choices apply to a real war, why should an online simulation be any different? some armies are simply better equipped than others - it doesn't always get reduced to a purified test of skill. if it did, we would fight wars one on one with bare hands. if you want to compete, you will have to invest some of your "gross domestic product" (allowance/income) into your "military" (hardware/connection).
if you don't have better than dialup in your area, you can always move
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just enjoy the game on whatever level you can compete at, given your situation, and have fun. don't obsess over whether or not the guy who just fragged you really deserved it, or if he simply had an advantage - assuming he isn't cheating, you really have no valid recourse. if he IS breaking the rules, however, that's another ballgame entirely, and he should be flayed alive and rolled in vinegar.